Thursday, September 20, 2007

九箱回憶

整理舊居雜物,又見到那十一個飽滿的箱子。它們都跟隨了我很多年,每次搬家都設法把內容篩選,期望減少箱子的數目,然而每次都是艱難的抉擇。

(一)大中小學時代的照片,十多本大相簿連底片已佔去三大紙皮盒,而我明知自己是不會再拿那些舊菲林去翻印照片的。
(二)中學時喜歡寫信,雖與因學仔已經朝見面晚煲電話粥,仍然可以信來信往一大堆,內容不外友儕間是非、娛樂八卦題、校園新聞、少女情懷、以及有事無事也傷春悲秋一番,頗無聊,但那是我的中學生活寫照。
(三)多年來收到的生日卡、聖誕卡、心意卡及不同時節的賀卡,其中一張是好友三年級時送的,卡面是日本歌手中森明菜,裏面歪歪斜斜的寫着祝福字句,可以看出簽名是反覆練習多次,旁邊還有塗改液的痕跡,這位朋友今年十二月要結婚了,不知道她簽在婚書上的簽名是怎樣的呢?
(四)親友家人送的生日禮物,有的是自製的,錢也買不到,雖然大部分已經不會用不會擺,但確實捨不得丟棄。有兩個大音樂盒是好友移民他國後,付着昂貴的郵費寄回來的;有的是朋友初次歐遊回來的手信,她當時可能為了花這些錢而捱了好幾餐杯麵;還有一個木相架,是中學時四位好友用有限的零用錢合買給我的生日禮物,事隔多年,或許她們都不記得有這麽一回事,我卻覺得這相架特別矜貴。
(五)學生時代上課時偷偷傳的紙仔,很多竟是跟人一句來一句往的吵架辯駁。咦,原來我都好多牙齒印喎!仇家們,你哋又記得多少?
(六)作文、週記、話劇比賽劇本,拙作一大堆,質數慘不忍睹,真佩服自己那時的勇氣。
(七)各式各樣的獎狀,名堂都幾「豆泥」,那是曾經屬於我的一點點成就。
(八)學生手冊、成績表,珍貴的是操行一欄的評分及老師們聊聊數句的評語。
(九)九十年代至今每一年的記事簿和電話簿。
(十)充滿金石良言的記念冊。

此外還有心愛的漫畫書、兒時玩偶、小女童軍獎章、陶瓷課製成品、自己當副編的學生報、旅行買的紀念品、平安符、地圖、歌劇門票票尾、演唱會塲刋…….

經過一輪心理交戰,棄的棄,捐的捐,好不容易才把箱子數目減到九個,明知居住空間有限,仍想勉强把這些身外物留下來,畢竟,它們每一個都有自己的故事,充滿了回憶。

到底可以把它們保存多久?下次搬家再算吧!

P.S. 還好我從來沒有收集過波鞋、他媽哥池、G-Shock手錶、101斑點狗、7-Eleven Hello Kitty 磁石貼,真想知道有這些習慣的人如何處理收藏品?熱鬧過後,它們的下場又如何?

5 Comments:

At 1:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

我都有唔少中學時期的書信啦,咭啦。還有因為讀文學的関係,收藏了不少小說。成日想減少身外物,執到埋身跟又唔捨得掉 - 始終都係有紀念價值和屬於自己歷經的點滴嘛!

 
At 2:57 AM, Blogger 貴妃 said...

i was once like you, keeping stuff which means a lot to me. however, whenever i can juz throw them all away at an impulse, i reckon that they are not that dear to me, after all.

 
At 10:39 AM, Blogger Unknown said...

It must be a women thing...I keep lots and lots of stuff, one of the reasons why I had to move to a house as I ran out of space! I still have all your letters! I start throwing away stuff like old school notes/text books but will definitely keep letters/pictures. Always wonder should I destroy them before I die or let whoever cleaning up discovers some secrets?

Sarah

 
At 9:29 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have kept many letters with my old pen pal. Letters are some personal sharing which is not easy to throw away... W

 
At 3:40 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i use to throw away a lot every year, my principal is to keep the total volume unchange so i can have the same space after 3 year i live in the same house.

for the film you can forward to me i could use my scanner to film scan it for you so that you could have copy in future.

 

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